A Nigerian woman has sparked deep conversations on social media after sharing an emotional video about her struggles with being 35, jobless, unmarried, and childless.
In a video posted on TikTok, the woman tearfully expressed how overwhelming life feels without a job, a partner, or a child at her age. Her eyes were visibly red from crying as she opened up to her followers, seeking encouragement and connection.
She captioned the video:
“Dear 35-year-old women, how are you doing life with no work, husband, or kids? Your advice will go a long way for us.”
Omo, this is painful.
You could literally feel the weight in her words, and it didn’t take long before the video caught the attention of many people who could relate or had walked a similar path.
Reactions Pour In From Across the Globe
TikTok users quickly filled the comment section with words of comfort and personal stories that show she’s not alone. Some users shared their own journeys of finding purpose and love much later in life.
One user, @LovelyG, dropped a deeply inspiring story:
“I’m not 35 anymore. But when I was 35, I had just finished my Master’s degree. No job, no husband, no kids. Living far from family in a foreign country. I took a minimum job just to survive.”
“Six months later, I landed my dream job. By 42, I met my husband. Today, we’re doing life together and loving every moment. So please don’t give up. Your time is coming.”
Omo, hope still dey.
Another commenter, @Bara.B, wrote:
“My dear, I’m 39—no child, no husband, no job, and I’m battling Endometriosis. Be strong.”
While @Ama Fynneba encouraged her to lean into faith:
“Sis, take it easy on yourself wai. God is in control. Try and pray on Alpha Hour.”
Watch the video below
This Is Real Life, and It’s Not a Race
This story is a reminder that everyone’s journey is different. While society might pressure women into timelines, the truth is — there’s no one-size-fits-all path to happiness.
Omo, the struggle is real but so is hope.
According to reports, many women in similar situations have found success, love, and fulfillment at unexpected moments. So while this woman’s tears are real, her story might just be the beginning of something beautiful.
