Social media is buzzing after a shocking story surfaced about a TikTok user identified as J-Love, an American man who allegedly scammed multiple Nigerian women under the disguise of love.
According to a viral video circulating on X (formerly Twitter), two women came forward with disturbing allegations — one of them claiming she lost over $10,000 to the so-called lover boy.
Omo, this one is not just heartbreaking — it’s messy and loud!
“I Thought He Was Different Because He’s American” — Victim Opens Up
One of the women revealed that although she noticed red flags early in their interaction, she ignored them because he was American and seemed charming.
She even went as far as paying for his flight from the U.S. to Nigeria, hoping for a serious relationship. Sadly, what followed was a series of manipulations and deceit.
“He scammed me of about $10,000. He had access to all my credit cards, my signature, and even made me his next of kin while collecting loans,” she said in the clip.
Omo this is painful… imagine falling in love and then finding out the man has child support cases as his welcome email!
Gaslighting and Emotional Abuse Allegedly Involved
The lady further claimed that J-Love emotionally manipulated her, often flipping the script when she raised concerns. According to her, his responses were dismissive and cold.
“Anytime I asked questions, he would say ‘Who broke you?’ and made me feel like I was the one overreacting,” she added.
Nigerians React As the Video Sparks Heated Debate
As expected, Nigerians didn’t hold back in the comment section. Some were sympathetic, others brutally honest. While many warned women to be more cautious, some blamed the obsession with “foreign love.”
@itrackNG: “Nigerian women will collect money from Nigerian men and hand it to a sweet-talking American because they want abroad boyfriend.”
@Adeyhemii30: “He’s been running these streets. Guys here no just dey appeal to them anymore.”
@adedante27: “I can’t even blame her. The guy is smooth. King J-Love, please scam these ungrateful girls well.”
Omo! Social media streets are wild — everyone has something to say.
Final Thoughts
While J-Love has yet to respond to the allegations, the viral video has already sparked broader conversations around emotional manipulation, online dating risks, and blind trust in foreign partners.
For now, it’s a lesson to many: no matter how sweet they sound, always watch out for the red flags. Especially when it involves your money and your heart.
